Even when deliberately create an excuse he is not jealous

Even when I deliberately create an excuse, he is not jealous

We got married 3 years ago. There are no children, we collect money for a down payment on a mortgage. There was romance, but then everything was gone. The husband became dry and callous. I began to create reasons for jealousy, but in vain,,

The beginning of our story

My colleagues and I are friends and discuss work issues, as well as personal matters, during breaks and lunches. Many of them tell how their husbands are jealous. The husband takes the manager of the company every day from work by car, waits half an hour until she finishes her business in order to leave together. And the husband is constantly spoiling the accountants with gifts, because once he saw someone smile after her. I am pretty, and they look back at me, but my husband does not see this point blank. He has no mistress, he is a home person, he goes to work and home, for shopping. Yes, and by nature he is faithful, it seems to me ...

And then I thought that it was necessary to teach him a lesson, to give cause for jealousy, the path bites his elbows!

What did I do

I tried many ways. At first she simply looked at other young people and praised their facial features, physique aloud. At the same time, her husband had a stone expression on his face. I speak into the void, he does not hear and does not listen to me.

Then she persuaded a friend to send me an intimate SMS. She signed her with a man's name and began to receive, before going to bed, a message or several. At first he didn’t react, and then in an irritated voice he asked who constantly wrote to me. I could not restrain myself and invited him to look. He looked in, saw that he wrote "Denis", and gave the phone to me. And then he turned to the wall and fell asleep.

Even when I deliberately create an excuse, he is not jealous

I realized that I need to go further, otherwise he will not understand what I am trying to achieve. I began to specially come home late. Usually she was at home already at 6, and began to arrive at 8-9. Once at all, without warning him that I was late, I arrived at 11 o’clock in the evening.

She began to put on the wrist the smell of male perfume. I thought, let her decide what she had with her lover. And once I bought a bouquet of flowers so that everything was believable, but there was no reaction from him. From the word completely ...

Started talking about divorce. I thought that if my methods do not work, my desire to leave will definitely bring him to his senses. But he only said dryly that if I want, you can get a divorce. To be honest, I did not expect such a turn of events. Thought he would feel, will try to keep me, to dissuade. But this did not happen, he just said it and went about his business.

What bothers me the most?

That he is a cracker. I do not like too jealous young people who track every step of the second half, but I do not understand such indifference. I thought he had another woman. I could also have realized what was happening, understood and forgiven him. But now I don’t understand anything.

When we first started dating, he was also dry and callous, but not to that extent. We got out somewhere, he spoke pleasant words to me. A year later, from the moment we signed, it all passed. Once I changed my hairstyle, but he didn’t even notice.

What do you think is not the case? Why am I trying to make him jealous, but there is no reaction? Out of love or not at all? Or is it just that kind of person? Should I talk to him directly, or go to extreme measures and ask the "lover" to give me a ride home? It is interesting to listen to any opinions.