Expelled from home due to low salary

Because of money, the world is going crazy. What will happen next? Where are we going?

We recently divorced my ex. The reason is simple - finance. Yes, banal. In Russia, it is in first place. Forty-six percent of broken families cited economic frustration as the main cause of divorce. Imagine, not treason, not jealousy, not alcohol, but money. I asked my grandmother why the people were getting divorced in the seventies and eighties. She told me that most often - because of treason and alcohol. It turns out that human qualities were valued higher. After all, betrayal and domestic licentiousness are not money. I did not cheat on my own and am not an alcoholic, but the divorce took place. Sober and faithful, but with a small salary, she did not need me. If she slept with foreign women and drank, but brought a lot of money, she would not have exposed me. It turns out so. And where is love and human relationships?

  It all started perfectly. So it seemed to me. We met for six months, and then decided to get married. There were invitees at the wedding, most of me. I have a lot of relatives. On her part were mostly friends.

  The first scandal over money happened when we considered donated grandmothers after the wedding. I understood that her friends could give only one two thousand per person. My relatives are five to ten. When counted, it turned out two hundred thousand. In fairness, I wanted to pick up the part that my relatives gave me. About two thirds of the collected. I really wanted to buy a car. The young wife wanted a completely different, she longed to go to rest. We argued for a long time, but in the end I lost, went to the Black Sea. Upon returning from Sochi, the remaining pennies were divided.

Expelled from home due to low salary

  To continue to avoid conflicts on the basis of finances, they decided to organize the economic basis of the family in the likeness of a thieves common fund. She suggested that. They decided to pay fifty percent of the salary to the common boiler. The amount collected went for all sorts of family needs: for food, a communal apartment, household chemicals. My salary at that time was much higher than that of my wife, so this was fine with my spouse. The remaining rubles from the contribution were spent at their discretion. I saved up for a car, she - for my appearance. She was going to enlarge her breasts. And she enlarged, inserted breast implants.

  Apparently, false breasts played a good start in his wife’s career. A month later, she got a new position and began to earn much more than before, and even twice as much as me. You understand, in the financial component of our family, an imbalance immediately formed and, as a result, scandals. My wife began to reproach me with a small salary and advised me to change my occupation. Naturally, I refused, I liked my work, everything suited me on it. Then the wife proposed a new alignment to replenish the common fund. She asked me to contribute to the common boiler everything that I earned. Such a trick on her part, I did not expect - before buying a car I had very little left. We could not agree, and the wife resolved the issue in her own way; she began to contribute not half of her personal income to the family budget, but thirty percent.

Expelled from home due to low salary

   Conflicts became more frequent, there was not enough money for all needs. Communal debt began to grow, we did not pay for services for two months. The landlady, upon learning of non-compliance with the lease, threatened with a statement to the court. The wife was scared, a similar scandal could affect her successful career. She paid off the debt from her pocket and filed for divorce. Naturally, with all this, she put my suitcase out of the doorway. It suited me, I finally bought a car. Although not new, but still quite sturdy. And the divorce didn’t upset me, anyway, someday I would have to leave. These were not bonds of love, but merely commodity-money relations.